I vividly remember singing that song as a child on the way to my grandparent’s house for Thanksgiving dinner every year. I probably sang it over and over for the duration of the drive from West Nanticoke to Chase as we back-tracked the path of Harvey’s Creek. This singing probably drove my parents crazy. Maybe not.

Now I find that I’ve assumed role of hostess held by my dear grandmother who died almost 20 years ago. This year, I am especially fortunate to be setting a table (three, actually) for nineteen people! I think she’d be proud to know the role fell to me. I could never, ever be as gracious of a hostess as she was. In my mind’s eye, she was perfect.

Of all the holidays, I think I might like this one the most. It’s the grace for the gathering itself that is the focus. Not fireworks, or noisemakers or costumes. It’s a relief to be able to spend time with family and friends without any of the stresses of other holidays. I know lots of people living here who spend the day volunteering for the local churches and shelters. It’s a day for reaching out without any hustle or bustle.

I’ll be serving the traditional meal, but there are plenty of other traditions associated with this day. The Macy’s Parade has marched since 1924. I watch it on NBC every year and the Rockettes are still my favorite part. My husband remembers the annual football game played on this day: Coughlin versus Wyoming Valley West. This never hit my radar, but he speaks of it often. Professional football has been played on this day even longer than the Macy’s parade! Speaking of pros, only the very best seasoned shoppers can observe the traditional day-after sport of bargain shopping. It is definitely not a day for amateurs!

It is my wish that everyone can enjoy some important traditions on this day. Like the pilgrims (and like Martin Frobisher before them http://www.wisegeek.com/what-is-the-history-of-thanksgiving.htm), I try to think of all the things I am thankful for:

Even if it had to end tomorrow, I have had a wonderful life.
I am healthy.
I have a fantastic family.
I have some dear friends who would probably drop everything if I ever had to ask.
I know my neighbors and would help them like I know they would help me.
I have a good job with a kind boss who cares about all of us.
Our area is nice and there are people who are working hard to make it even better.
There are plenty of shelters and clinics for those who need.
There are many places to worship, learn, and be entertained.
We live near the biggest city in the world without having to pay such high costs of living.
Our seasons, mountains and surrounding countryside are all beautiful.
We have the world’s best Armed Forces protecting us as we bow our heads to say grace.

I hope everyone has a splendid Thanksgiving and safe travels!